The former has knowledge on syntax because using a calculator is based on hand written principles.
Knoeledge and some logic based around it. I suspect that pretty much every valued skill is a cluster of many, many skills that without them, the valued skill is unavailable. People end up very disjointed from themselves, especially when they essentially have mental development gaps that are no long closeable.
Culture plays a big part in what we learn, as parents are very limited. the problem being though is that many kids are going to group - "birds of a feather" and end up surrounded by people just like them - and think it is normal.