At the end - I wonder if I will be thinking about whether people loved me enough, or I loved enough. Which is more important? Do I want to be missed for being gone, or appreciated for having lived?
The nuns led us to believe that was good enough for a pass to hell.
It is all about control, isn't it?
You aren't self-centered, so you will wonder if you loved enough and you want to be appreciated for having lived.
It IS all about control.