You can take offense about the slang as much as you want, it is what it is. Would you prefer me to use some euphemism like cooperative alternative monetary masturbation on the blockchain? No slang there.
The 1st link implies that it's not mandatory to set those beneficiaries and even people that don't set it gets a vote. Project hope seems to favor posts that 50% beneficiary rewards as a prerequisite.
People are encourage but they are not punished for not doing it with being ignored.
The second link is a requirement for a contest. Note the contest guidelines as submitting something not within the usual content you would see as there are specific requirements for entry.
Second part, you're right evil is evil and I would love to have more dv mana to get as much rewards reduced for people that do cooperative alternative monetary masturbation on the blockchain.