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One of the fundamental ideas presented in The Pursuit of Perfect is the shift from being a fault finder to being a benefit finder. Perfectionists often focus on failures and shortcomings, which brings about stress and dissatisfaction. Instead, Ben-Shahar encourages us to actively seek out benefits—even in challenging situations. For instance, if confronted with obstacles, can we identify three benefits stemming from those difficulties? This practice can transform our mindset, making us more resilient and attuned to life’s positives.