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Humans are inherently social beings, and forming alliances can significantly diminish a bully’s influence. The strategy involves paying favors forward, fostering genuine connections that can turn into alliances and, ultimately, friendships.
A well-connected individual becomes harder to intimidate because they add value to their community and are seen as useful. More so, bullies are less likely to challenge someone who is respected and socially integrated.
Key takeaway: Cultivate relationships and alliances; social capital is an effective defense.
Sharpening Your Skills Daily
Self-improvement and competence are formidable deterrents for bullies. The speaker emphasizes practicing critical skills daily, be it verbal wit, strategic thinking, or self-defense.