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He advocates for the importance of carefully noticing and positively reinforcing good behavior in loved ones. Using principles from psychology—such as B.F. Skinner’s law of reinforcement—the speaker advises that acknowledging and rewarding positive actions promotes harmony and stability. Conversely, neglecting such positive behaviors or harboring grudges undermines relationships, especially with children.
Additionally, he warns against unexamined resentment and the tendency to ignore genuine kindness or progress in others. Maintaining clarity and a purpose in relationships fosters genuine connection, making it easier to work through issues rather than avoiding them.