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Emphasizing a new approach is key. Rather than engaging in traditional arguments, the speaker advocates for a method that involves emotionally disengaging from conflicts. The primary strategy offered is to avoid confrontations altogether, thereby sidestepping the emotional intensity of the debate.
The advice is to adopt a mentality of "not engaging" in disputes. This does not imply a lack of backbone but rather a tactical decision to not lower oneself to emotional levels of conflict. Instead of arguing, a system of verbal cues is introduced: the “yellow card” and “red card” system.