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A recent query from a young woman seeking advice for her boyfriend on Valentine’s Day highlights a common dilemma in modern relationships. She expressed her desire to give him something special after he hinted at having a surprise for her. However, his reluctance to share his favorite candy and outright dismissal of gifts by saying “don’t you dare” uncovers a deeper issue.
He believes that the modern Valentine’s Day is not meant for men, reflective of an attitude held by many. Digging into this sentiment, one can see that the day often feels laden with commercialization, rather than genuine expression of love and care. As stated, “It’s nothing more than a contrived madeup holiday designed to get people to spend a ton of money,” which could lead to resentment and conflict in relationships.