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At the outset of the discussion, a strong recommendation is presented: keep first dates inexpensive. Whether it’s grabbing a drink, tea, or coffee, minimizing expenses allows for a less pressured environment. This approach is wise, as it provides a safety net if the date takes a disastrous turn. The dangers of spending lavishly on a first date are twofold: not only could you be stuck with an unpleasant company, but some women may be there purely for a free meal—a phenomenon dubbed "foodie dating."
This advice is underscored by real-life examples shared on Reddit, where men recounted their worst first date moments leading to the realization that not everyone is genuinely interested in making a connection.