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The author emphasizes that the catalyst for their personal unraveling was not solely infidelity but a collective negligence in sustaining emotional intimacy. The stark realization of drifting apart, coupled with the absence of shared interests, raises essential questions about the true state of a relationship once the structured lives of work and children dissolve.
The Crucial Changes in Routine and Identity
Daily Routine Alterations
Retirement fundamentally alters daily routines. The activities that provided couples with their own space – work, social commitments, and personal hobbies – dissipate. Increased time at home without a focused agenda can lead to frustration for couples unaccustomed to the constant presence of one another.
Quality vs. Quantity of Time