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So, how can individuals improve their dating lives amidst these overwhelming lists of requirements? Dr. Taban urges people to start by wanting fewer things; prioritizing needs and being realistic about what is available on the “market.” He emphasizes the importance of willingness in relationships and posits that understanding the limitations of desires can lead to more fulfilling connections.
Relationships should ideally be based on shared goals and values, which are both concrete and realizable. He argues that those exhausted by unattainable expectations are typically overwhelmed by feelings of discontent in both life and love, which subsequently makes them less appealing partners.