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A core principle in this approach is recognizing the yin and yang inherent in every statement. Every positive claim or stance likely shadows a negative experience or concern, and vice versa. For instance, if someone emphasizes their commitment to integrity, it might hint at past betrayals or disappointments with honesty. Similarly, when discussing a strength or value, listen for potential vulnerabilities or past struggles that are indirectly conveyed.
This duality helps guide conversations more thoughtfully. By understanding what negatives might underlie positives—such as fears, doubts, or objections—listeners can steer dialogues toward solutions and understanding that acknowledge these underlying truths.