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He advocates for "forgetting about feelings" when seeking a partner over 35 and urges women to approach dating with logic—identifying qualities such as admiration, shared values, physical attraction, and compatibility rather than waiting for fireworks or romantic butterflies. The cultural mythos of love at first sight is undermined by biological and psychological facts: as women age, their hormonal drive decreases, making those intense romantic feelings less likely, progress rare, or non-existent.
The implication is that women must accept the reality of age-related emotional shifts and find practical, grounded reasons for choosing a partner—chiefly admiration and similar principles, rather than idealized romance.