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A recurring theme is the discrepancy between words and actions. Participants are skeptical of men who claim they dislike sleeping around, suspecting deceit. One woman recounts a date where a man seemed eager to "wife her up" within a week, yet she discovered he left his young child alone at home to pursue her, which was a significant turnoff. Such red flags—improper priorities and irresponsibility—are seen as deal-breakers.
Moreover, honesty is highly valued. When discussing hypothetical scenarios, women prefer partners who are upfront about ongoing relationships, even if they are seeing other people. They believe that clear communication helps set realistic expectations and reduces heartbreak.