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When engaging with others, especially in high-stakes scenarios like espionage, the goal is to understand their worldview without overwhelming them or giving oneself away. This process begins by recognizing that nobody truly functions solely based on authentic, unfiltered self-revelation. Instead, individuals project three distinct “lives”:
Public Life: The persona presented outwardly, designed to garner admiration or acceptance. It involves outward appearances, social status, and perceived success.
Private Life: The more genuine self known to close confidants—family, friends, intimate partners—acting as a window into their deeper personality.