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Shapiro presents interpersonal boundaries as limits that control physical, emotional, and mental closeness. They vary based on personal experience and relationships and evolve over time. Establishing and respecting boundaries is vital for self-care, trust-building, and emotional safety.
Psychological studies he references indicate that respecting boundaries enhances others' respect for you. Conversely, violations—like disregarding a "no"—can lead to feelings of violation, disrespect, or harm, calling for assertiveness and clear communication.
Hypothetical Scenarios and Parables
To illustrate these principles, Shapiro invents fictional stories emphasizing the importance of respecting boundaries: