Part 5/11:
The Illusion of Desiring “Good Men”
The narrative continues with a lament about a supposed shortage of "attractive, eligible, mentally stable, emotionally available men." However, the speaker clarifies that such a shortage is more about perceived availability than actual scarcity. The truth, he argues, is that high-quality men are often already married, chosen, or simply not seeking to date, having long moved past the “search” stage. Women criticizing the lack of good men are often in their own "mind space"—clinging to fantasies or misjudging the men around them. Men who are available are either working, in their own social circles, or simply not interested in dating women who behave entitled or unappreciative.