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In her revelations, Lopez suggests that the crux of her struggles isn’t necessarily external—the inability of others to love her—but internal: her own self-perception and self-love. She states:
"It’s not that I’m not lovable, it’s that they’re not capable. They can’t love."
This perspective indicates a recognition that those she has loved or been with may have lacked the capacity for true affection. She goes further, reflecting on her past relationships, stating:
"They gave me what they had. They tried to give me the houses, rings, and all the things they could—but they didn’t love me."
This points to a pattern where material gestures overshadow emotional understanding. The emphasis is on superficial gestures—luxury and status symbols—rather than genuine emotional connection.