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A recurring theme is the idea that effort in romantic pursuits is asymmetrical. The speaker highlights that men tend to invest effort only when they perceive the relationship as worth it, a principle seen as natural rather than problematic. Conversely, it is often women who expect men to pursue, impress, and earn their affection, while they may not reciprocate equally. She critiques the notion that women’s gratitude and effort are obligatory, emphasizing that women sometimes fail to understand or appreciate male contributions.