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Addressing the misconception that strength equals emotional suppression, Jacobson advocates for embracing vulnerability as a form of true strength. He criticizes the societal stereotype that equates masculinity with emotional stoicism, emphasizing that genuine courage involves honesty and openness about one’s feelings.
He uses the analogy of the alpha male, arguing that true confidence comes from knowing when to be strong and when to surrender or show tenderness. Vulnerability is rooted in self-awareness—recognizing one’s insecurities and allowing oneself to be seen authentically. For example, crying or admitting pain is not weakness but a testament to a person’s inner strength and authenticity.