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Crying, expressing pain, and allowing oneself to be vulnerable are acts of courage that facilitate healing. The metaphor of a boiling kettle with a spout underscores this point: holding in emotions causes pressure to build until it potentially explodes in destructive ways. Conversely, releasing feelings is cathartic and necessary for emotional balance.
The Role of Love and Relationships
Rabbi Jacobson highlights that love itself requires vulnerability. True intimacy involves surrendering ego and being open with another person, trusting that mutual understanding will deepen connections and foster growth. An alpha approach that dismisses feelings could hinder genuine relationships where empathy and emotional accessibility are vital.