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The first point emphasized is that sometimes people will ask seemingly mundane or "boring" questions, such as "What are you doing tonight?" or "Are you free?" These inquiries often serve as a conversational trap, a way to gain access or gauge your availability. The advice given is to recognize this pattern as a potential trap and to respond in a manner that shifts the focus away from the question, moving on smoothly as if the question wasn’t even asked.
Moving On Without Engagement
The key strategy here is to ignore the question altogether and transition seamlessly into what you wanted to say next. This approach can increase your perceived confidence and control in the interaction, making it clear that you're not easily manipulated or sidetracked by superficial questions.