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A provocative but pragmatic suggestion is to lower your standards temporarily by dating women you might consider less attractive or less traditionally ideal. The reasoning is that aiming only for the most attractive women can be discouraging and often futile, especially if you're inexperienced or feeling insecure.
The advice encourages you to approach women who are more accessible—perhaps women who aren't considered "hot"—because they might be more open to dating you. The mindset is that building genuine connections with anyone available can lead to personal growth, and possibly, discovering love along the way.