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This leads into a broader discussion about a well-documented phenomenon—the paradox of female happiness. Since the 1970s, data has shown that the more women gain in terms of workplace involvement, career achievement, and social equality, the less happy many women report feeling. This disconnect suggests that increased options and opportunities may, counterintuitively, diminish overall happiness.
A key insight from the conversation attributes this to the clash between personal expectations and societal realities. When women’s expectations—whether for love, family, and happiness—are shattered or unmet, feelings of victimization can intensify. Being reinforced or perceived as a victim further hampers the pursuit of happiness, creating a cycle of dissatisfaction.