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Experts suggest that presenting oneself well on a first date is not merely superficial but a signal of self-respect and seriousness. Conversely, women asserting they’re "just being themselves" by eschewing makeup often mask underlying insecurities or resistance to societal standards. For men, appearance and effort are often linked to intentions, making this a nuanced social dance.
The Reality of “Trying”: Effort and Authenticity in Romance
Throughout the discussions, a recurring theme emerges: effort in appearance and behavior remains a vital component of romantic interactions. While some defend the idea of organic authenticity, others point out that societal conditioning influences perceptions of effort, attractiveness, and sincerity.