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This disconnect stems from a fundamental mismatch: women tend to desire the benefits of high-value men—status, security, validation—but often resist the accountability and standards that come with such relationships. When boundaries are enforced, or when a man expresses preferences—like not tolerating certain behaviors or social circles—many women see it as an unwanted constraint rather than a natural consequence of dating a high-tier partner.
The Nature of Boundaries and Standards
High-value men are not casual about boundaries. They structure their lives meticulously—to protect their resources, reputation, and emotional well-being. Boundaries around social media posts, travel plans, friendships, and fidelity are common. For example: