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The speaker expressed skepticism about rigid gender-specific parenting identities like "boy mom" or "girl dad," arguing that such labels tend to be divisive. Instead, they advocate for a universal approach to parenting—being a good parent regardless of gender, emphasizing nurturing, discipline, and responsibility without pigeonholing oneself into a niche identity.
This resistance stems from the belief that focusing on gender-specific labels can reinforce stereotypes—such as boys needing to be providers or girls needing to be caregivers—and distract from the core responsibilities of raising moral, responsible, and self-sufficient individuals.