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Much of this oversharing stems from a desire for community and understanding—a need to connect with others who feel similarly overwhelmed. However, the internet rarely offers the empathetic responses mothers seek. Instead, it fosters a culture of negativity, where mistakes are scrutinized, and parents are often labeled as negligent or unfit.
The Double Bind: Judgment for Every Choice
A recurring theme in online motherhood conversations is the lack of a "winning" position. If a mother stays home, she's accused of not contributing or being unambitious; if she works, she's criticized for neglecting her children or being selfish. This all-or-nothing judgment creates a no-win scenario that heightens stress and feelings of inadequacy.