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Moreover, many mothers are walking around with a subconscious chorus of shame echoing in their minds, fueled by the social punishments and criticisms they encounter online. Persistent exposure to negativity and judgment creates a hostile environment, discouraging authentic sharing and support.
The Reality Behind the Idealized Motherhood
The comparison to discussing professional achievements is apt—rarely does anyone find that reaching a long-held career goal is exactly as expected. Yet, motherhood is often portrayed as a pure, unchallenging fulfillment. The reality, as many mothers experience, is complex. Dreams do not always ideate happily into reality, and discovering that parenthood is exhausting and demanding does not diminish its value or love.