Financial conditions arent the same and it is a very truth of life.
Hope, your grandma rests in peace. Life's own burdens and short of money in dealing with many parts of it, keeps us active and more productive then others.
Some days, distresses are met and a new luck opens up,then life becomes manageable. Good luck ..
Life becomes manageable sometimes and some other times it just becomes unfairly unbearable, despite one's evident effort to make it better