times comes in our lives where being good is not good enough. I just want to reflect on the issues of life in this article. Every man indeed has a dream and to summarize it it will be to reach its best level in life. While one may want to be a billionaire, another may settle for a millionaire level and still another just wants to met up with ALL his daily life requirements abstaining from the ladder of calculated wealth.
Whichever position you crave, it will definitely cost you something. Most of us have had to build wealth from level zero, a painful scenario I must say to talk of. Indeed, hedge is a good stand and start point yet as I said, when you don't have it, you will have to use the other rather stressful path. We all had dreams from our school days, doctors, teachers, lawyers, engineers and the likes. Yet, a very small percentage of people always end up in their first dream life.
In times of uncertainties, you just have to realize who you truly are. Delays, frustrations have always emerged to shrink dreams and shatter destinies. This pressure most of the time has been an opportunity yet we choose to stay sober. The truth is, to get the best out of yourself, you'll need pressure. Those presurring and challenging times can help your destiny into a new path. I have had mine which I had succumbed to but later realized these are big opportunities to take bulls by the horn.
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If you easily get discouraged, then your destiny is not actually yours. In short, you can easily be manipulated. "When life throws dirt at you, learn to locate the river"--- dani-asi. There are no two ways to succeed other than breaking down the failure resistance. How has your dream evolved? Didn't have that strong backup? As earlier said, a lot of us came from the same path. Nevertheless, settling for a defeat is you spending life in the most bizarre of manners. You have one shot, make it count. Everyday you wake up, let it reechoe in your mind that life is an opportunity to be your best.
I have read several success stories by famous writers and even businessmen alike. A time came they realized nothing will move any further unless they are at their best. Not good, not better, I mean best. It's left for you to put all forces together to create your best and break resistance. If I were to rate the good, better and best percentage, I would say that out of 100%, 60% of people are good, 30% are better and just 10% are at their best. You see the need to join the 10%? It doesn't mean you must have billion dollar projects like Elon Musk before you look for your best.
Even that small project and business you are holding needs your best. Do better in little and you will do the same in much. Oftentimes we thought we would have done better if a larger portion was given to us. You may have a point that leads nowhere, you have to admit sooner than later, you will blow everything off. These are the kinds of corrections I am aiming to make in life. I am doing my best in my small projects so when they all grow, I will still be operating from my 'best perspective'. Waking up daily and thinking of doing your best can be a hedge.
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How do you build a good career when you are not operating at your best level? That saying that every plan you have, ten people also have it, three are working on it and one has executed is very true. It's the best that end up executing projects. It's high time we reflect on life, dreams and where we are currently stuck. Learn to say no to defeat or is your success not worth it. I have always pondered upon the fact that we have very little to live yet even the little is encompassed with lots of troubles and challenges.
It feels like letting go from here when such reasoning is put into consideration yet I would say, you gain absolutely nothing. It's a full time loss, loss. All the pressure and discomforts of life can help shape you when you find the right reason to live. One of the reasons I push further is to clear path for my successors and personally, it's worth it. Any defeat you accept becomes a punishment for the future generation, this is why a lot of families have continued in the line of suffering because no one is ready to fight back.
To conclude, let me add, not many are born with golden or silver spoons as the case may be. The best of you under the perceived pressure will go a long way from here. Focusing on goals that will set you on peaks is a recommendable instruction. Or what would you rather do? Grow timid and give in to fear and surrounding doubts. I assume that's not the best of options. There are basically two kinds of opportunities, the ones you find and the ones you create. Whichever one it be, take it as seriously as you can. Be your best, there is no resistance too strong for a positive mind to break. As you make your bed, so you'll lie on it. This comfort will sprout from you being at your best.
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