This is indeed a big leverage, it is something many don't even put into consideration. One of the worst forms of wasting time is when you are right in the process. If you are taking life the way it is throwing things at you, you are both a victim of NOW and later. Many have shortened their lifespan because they chose to be overthinker, worst of ALL, these problems never get resolved in their deep worries. In this article we are going to delve into why a lot of worries are very irrelevant.
Just as I earlier said, the secret is all about understanding the end. Let's take for instance, you are indebted to someone, you’ve tried your best to keep to the promised repayment date and you couldn't. Some in the process will enter into a state of depression losing valuable time that would have been used to perhaps set another realized time to tackle this problem.
You have to understand this, at the end of the fixed date, your debtee will still know and take any action that seems right to him. So why not look forward to how to resolve the pending current end. A phone call can be helpful, how about a text message. The idea is, waiting for the first action to come from him worsens the matter. Let's say, he will allow an extra one week to pass while you are still tying yourself down in pressure and depression.
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How did I even get to this article? Ok, I was thinking of what to even write and a friend’s call entered my phone. It was about urgent funding to solve a pending challenge. Starting a business can be very hectic and I have to understand it. People watching from the outside will be saying there is or should be enough cash inflow to solve and pay business bills but we know, the behind the scene character is always perseverance.
At least I am happy for this friend for taking a bold move to open a business and push herself into the self employed category. What do you do when the electrical officials come knocking at your door early enough and there is no dime in you. Ok, they could look into your office and see its standards; ‘that feeling that if she says there is no money for NOW, it is a big lie’. humans and their assumptions, how we quickly weigh things by instant sight.
She needed me to help her send some funds to settle the bills so she can refund me later. I could understand the situation; first, the money wasn't that big, secondly, it was for business purposes and thirdly, it was an entrepreneur asking from an entrepreneur; a link I wouldn't fail to maintain so as to hedge even in my own rainy days. As I will always say; WE NEED EACH OTHER.
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It didn't take me up to a minute to go through my account to forward her the money. After all the settlement was done, she later sent a text of gratitude, nothing bad about that but what she added was what I had to strongly correct. ‘The pressure is high, many things going through my head, one can get blood pressure issues’. Ok, I don't like this one and I have to address it very fast. Someone can mean a lot in a few lines of statements.
What kind of pressure would cause one to overthink into BP issues? An electrical bill? I had to let her understand how one can stay calm by understanding the end of something even before it starts. What worse can these officials do? At most they will just drop those wires to fix them on a later date when you are ready to comply.
To conclude, let me add, there is always a need to take things very easy in life. Refuse pressure to bait you both at will and at ease. I could remember when I had to write urgent sets of examinations. I never saw it coming, I got registered late into the school semester and I was to resume exams the next month. I was just overthinking the whole situation until I one day decided to put a stop to it. What worse can come from this situation; a carryover and I will have to sort it out in the second semester.
Not that I am enjoying to see such happen but one has to be very careful of how you stress and strain your brain on situations that have plan B, C and even D. In the end, did I carry any of those courses? NO, putting on a clear mind and walking towards how to resolve it by exempting pending pressure gave me a clear mind to leverage the little available time.
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