A woman's "rules" often act as defensive, self-preserving filters: they screen out men who can’t fit an abstract ideal or who can't overwrite those rules through sheer intensity of presence.
Women set boundaries for men they judge inferior and loosen them for men they judge superior.
A man's remarks about women partly reveal his position in a broader dominance order.
Views on women are usually rooted in personal experience, shaped by how those women perceived that man's status.
That perception relates to how a man carries himself and the skills he brings.
Because of the specific way he embodies certain qualities, she spontaneously revises her rules: things she never intellectually expected to enjoy become real for her with him, not as abstractions but as lived realities.
When a woman is fully activated by eros, logic matters less; she begins to relate to herself, men, and the world through how he shifts her perception of reality, and she goes along for that journey.
A man who becomes the axis of a woman's being—by being uniquely distinctive or deeply resonant—can command her loyalty even if he appears, by objective metrics, a "loser." That power can be wholesome (he is genuinely great) or predatory (he forced past her defenses), but energetically he becomes the strongest figure in her life, and women tend to gravitate toward the most potent presence available.
Men often reveal their place in the hierarchy through their opinions: someone who has never known a woman's full devotion will reference experiences of compromise, rejection, and transactional interactions rather than being the object of unhinged worship, servitude, or adoration.
If a woman isn't unhinged for him and because of him in service to him, it may not be the kind of love being described here—many so-called relationships are comfortable arrangements mistaken for true love because the deeper template is unknown.
A woman's "rules" often act as defensive, self-preserving filters: they screen out men who can’t fit an abstract ideal or who can't overwrite those rules through sheer intensity of presence.
A genuinely compelling man introduces a lived, felt dimension a woman didn't know she could access—he awakens intensity and devotion in her.
Because of the specific way he embodies certain qualities, she spontaneously revises her rules: things she never intellectually expected to enjoy become real for her with him, not as abstractions but as lived realities.
Rules vary: some are grounded in logic or prudence, others in ego, idealization, or delusion.
When a woman is fully activated by eros, logic matters less; she begins to relate to herself, men, and the world through how he shifts her perception of reality, and she goes along for that journey.
Overriding the spiritual with the purely logical is typically a sign of spiritual imbalance, even among highly rational women.
Regarding perceived superiority: it's often energetic rather than strictly about looks, income, or résumé.
A man who becomes the axis of a woman's being—by being uniquely distinctive or deeply resonant—can command her loyalty even if he appears, by objective metrics, a "loser." That power can be wholesome (he is genuinely great) or predatory (he forced past her defenses), but energetically he becomes the strongest figure in her life, and women tend to gravitate toward the most potent presence available.
Men often reveal their place in the hierarchy through their opinions: someone who has never known a woman's full devotion will reference experiences of compromise, rejection, and transactional interactions rather than being the object of unhinged worship, servitude, or adoration.
If a woman isn't unhinged for him and because of him in service to him, it may not be the kind of love being described here—many so-called relationships are comfortable arrangements mistaken for true love because the deeper template is unknown.