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2/ Whenever you want to get something, first thought is always "I'm going to get it by working hard"

Does it work?

A lot of cases where your efforts won't be even noticed

3/ is it worse than you're Getting Neglected or you're putting efforts to wrong thing/people?

I've shared more in this blog:

https://inleo.io/@idksamad78699/the-pain-of-unnoticed-effort-a-reality-check-on-hard-work--5wa