1/ June 12 has always been a special day in our country — a day we commemorate freedom, bravery, and national pride. For our family though, this date now carries even more meaning. It marks the 10th birthday of our grandnephew who, despite his young age, embodies the quiet strength and resilience that Independence Day celebrates.
2/ Born on the same day the Philippines declared its freedom, our dear boy has grown into a thoughtful and strong-hearted "kuya" to his younger sisters. Though he lives apart from his father (my nephew) — a reality many families face — he never complains. Instead, he fills the role of an older brother with grace and warmth, showing love and care in ways that are beyond his years. In many ways, he shows what it means to be independent not in isolation, but in standing strong while still holding space for love.
3/ This year, to mark his 10th year, we “borrowed” him from his mom to celebrate. While it wasn’t a grand party with balloons or magicians, it turned out to be a memorable day not because of extravagance, but because of the genuine love and effort that surrounded him.
His dad (an only child), welcomed him with affection that closes the distance between them. My sister and brother-in-law whom he lovingly calls "Papa" and "Mommy Sexy," made the extra effort to be there, even if it meant adjusting their own schedules just to spend time with him. They knew how much he missed them, and they, too, had longed for that moment, to hug him, to see him laugh, to listen to his stories.
4/ At ten years old, he may not fully grasp the gravity of what it means to be born on a nation's Independence Day, but in the way he carries himself — resilient, gentle, quietly strong — we see the reflection of the very ideals this country celebrates. With the love he gives and receives, we’re reminded that true family doesn’t always need loud celebrations to be felt. Sometimes, it just needs effort, presence, and heart.
To our birthday boy: your strength, your heart, and your quiet leadership as a kuya are a gift to us all. Happy 10th birthday! May you always know how deeply you are loved.
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