2/ 🧵 If we do nothing, dismiss our negative experiences, and fail to recover from our wounds, our past will still haunt us and restrict our future. If we want to move on and lead active lives, we should learn to take charge of our past instead of having it dictate who we are.
Is your experience that anything negative might happen to you? You will get caught in traffic while running behind time. Your hard-earned money invested in the financial exchange will cause the firm to crash, and you will lose all of it. Your managers will overlook your worth if you drop your head and work hard; others will advance.
3/ 🧵One of the best tools for forgiving someone who has offended you is knowing why they did it. Learning to see other people's motives and use their points of view in your thoughts can help considerably improve your mood. It's time to move on when you have started justifying yourself and others.
Sometimes, quitting might be challenging. If you find it difficult to stop, remember that you are right now and should embrace yourself precisely as you are. Giving up and embracing one's individuality are two very different worlds. You decide never to linger on the past and move forward when you let go. Whatever the case, moving forward calls for owning errors and disappointments—which you could achieve by looking back.
4/ 🧵When negotiating your past, time may be your most reliable friend. Focusing on the here and now will help you to perceive your history as far-off antiques. Let yourself heal from your hurt. Time will cause memories to fade, and your suffering will be swallowed completely.
In the grand scheme of things, your future is within your hands; your past is just that—history. Working hard today guarantees you the life you want down the road. Furthermore, if you spend all your time moping about the past, you will never prosper. Time passes without anybody spared.
Then, concentrate on what is to come. Continue ahead with an eye toward your dream life. Try deliberately to create new, inspirational targets.
2/ 🧵 If we do nothing, dismiss our negative experiences, and fail to recover from our wounds, our past will still haunt us and restrict our future. If we want to move on and lead active lives, we should learn to take charge of our past instead of having it dictate who we are.
Is your experience that anything negative might happen to you? You will get caught in traffic while running behind time. Your hard-earned money invested in the financial exchange will cause the firm to crash, and you will lose all of it. Your managers will overlook your worth if you drop your head and work hard; others will advance.
3/ 🧵One of the best tools for forgiving someone who has offended you is knowing why they did it. Learning to see other people's motives and use their points of view in your thoughts can help considerably improve your mood. It's time to move on when you have started justifying yourself and others.
Sometimes, quitting might be challenging. If you find it difficult to stop, remember that you are right now and should embrace yourself precisely as you are. Giving up and embracing one's individuality are two very different worlds. You decide never to linger on the past and move forward when you let go. Whatever the case, moving forward calls for owning errors and disappointments—which you could achieve by looking back.
4/ 🧵When negotiating your past, time may be your most reliable friend. Focusing on the here and now will help you to perceive your history as far-off antiques. Let yourself heal from your hurt. Time will cause memories to fade, and your suffering will be swallowed completely.
In the grand scheme of things, your future is within your hands; your past is just that—history. Working hard today guarantees you the life you want down the road. Furthermore, if you spend all your time moping about the past, you will never prosper. Time passes without anybody spared.
Then, concentrate on what is to come. Continue ahead with an eye toward your dream life. Try deliberately to create new, inspirational targets.
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