Very hard to agree without specifics. People don't always know when they are making bad choices. And sometimes the consequences are much more severe than warranted.
The real question is, are you asking if you should have sympathy because you don't have sympathy and you think you should? Or is it because you do have sympathy and you think you shouldn't?
because I do have sympathy and I think I shouldn't.
I sometimes can warn them over and over yet they still do it.
Ah, yeah, if they are making the same mistake over and over and not listening, it's hard to continue having sympathy.
Thanks for that.