You are right, we all have been newbies at one point and if we opt out with every buckle then we'll never be the old-timers and reap the benefits of these well-planned actions from the devs.
Exactly what I’m saying.
I hope she took your advice because it’s a very sound one, and she might not really know if the people scolding her mean well for her or not.
Being able to grind in uncomfortable situations is a skill people have to learn especially if there’s a clear goal.