We make this assumption that people care so much about privacy, agency, identity, etc but the reality is most people do not. Most people just care about connecting with other people irrespective of the medium even at their own expense. Would this change any time soon? I doubt.
This is why web 3 platforms need to focus on growth and creating usable dapps. Connect with core essence of social media--which is simple just a medium to connect with the world. Maybe when we do get that right we wont have to preach so much about the benefits of web 3.
Yeah the reality is that they will only start valuing all of this when they need it, and by then it will be too late.