This is sick , what i am reading .
Problem is we are not in couple with love but with passed traumas .
If you have kids in this relationship , you are fucked for life .
Celibacy sometimes is the best bet , we are all traumatised .
Maybe we need to wait to be 80 years to be in couple , when we are blind , deaf , teethless , bald and most important ...with no energy to run or scream
Yeah ...lets do that .