haha!
The end of my marriage got spectacularly complicated. Turned out, he wasn't healthy at all, and would soon start showing symptoms of ALS. It then became financially prudent for us to remain married, although we lived apart and estranged, more estranged than we would have been had he not become sick and had we divorced. Our staying married was dictated by financial, especially insurance, concerns. While I was in a terrible position socially as the estranged wife of a dying man, so that there was no relief at all there (it was awful actually), remaining married benefitted me financially greatly in the end - money started pouring in after his death. I did not expect that! There was great relief there, and I had plenty of money to get two kids through expensive colleges and up and running on their own financial feet.
Insurance is another trap that causes us to behave against our own self interests as human beings. Money, as we use it today, is an enslavement tool. I don't think a method of exchange is inherently evil, but our money has been usurped by slave masters, and it looks to me as though even greater attempts to enslave us via finances are well underway globally. Hang on!
That sounds like a terrible situation.
Why was this?
As a mother of three minors, I received generous monthly checks for each of them from social security, and another for myself; I was unexpectedly swimming in mostly tax free money. Along with all his assets becoming mine (mostly real estate by that time) and life insurance, I suddenly had plenty of money, after a few years of not being able to make ends meet. Thank goodness. We needed that relief. Watching him die was awful, and extremely stressful. Was I lucky? No, but at least I had enough money.