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I wish him a very happy birthday and congratulations on his graduation.

I would like to accompany my friend on his day, but today I have a job interview and some important health things to do. I'm sure he'll have a great time.

Just wish him the best I know he would understand

Yes, I wrote to you early so as not to forget to excuse myself, then I can forget. There will be time to toast and share with him.