it is a tool to use, not an endgoal
Does it drive your family and friends nuts too? XD
it doesn't feel like "me" in some way
And you understand why or can at least think through this given how much you've written about identity? :D
Conversations and discussions are definitely great for exanding understanding when that's what they are. I am almost certainly sure you've both been as well as encountered people who are more interested in proving how right they are than listening to why other people think the way they do x_x
I figure it's statistically unlikely to be just me XD
Yes it drives them silly also :)'
Yeah I understand - but it is still hard to let go!