What you said previously was clear as this is. That being said thank you for the depth of your explanation. I understand that bad matters, hatred and other mannerisms are learned from the parents.
What I hadn't understood was what your comment was doing in this threadcast about how to prepare for bad times. I'm sure somewhere it has a place... such as preparing your kid's future and trying to not repeat bad habits taught by our parents. Or being aware of how bullies become bullies maybe?
Eitherway, thanks for this!