Hello dear community, I am going to participate in the weekend experience. I was reading the questions, they are interesting to participate today. The one I identified with the most was. "Does a man need to have a fit, muscular, athletic body or a beautiful face to be attractive to you? Definitely this dilemma is a debate to be shared here. I invite you to read my story and you will know my way of thinking. Here we go.
Since I have experience of experimenting in dating guys, at first I liked attractive men as they looked on TV, magazine and even night spots, i.e. party or event. My problem is you are. that the person who have a well shaped body, and work out, dress well. They wear short sleeve shirt and tight pants. They even look a lot in the mirror or just give me signs or conditions, ie. That if I want to be with this person, I must also be attractive, with perfect body.
Because appearance must be accepted for society. And that discouraged me. I just want to eat knick-knacks or dessert while watching movie at home. It was a lot of pressure and I got bored fast. Having a conversation with a physically shallow person, talking about their appearance and being asked to touch their muscular part on their arms and abdomen. I definitely lose interest and even my appetite.
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So, when I started to take control of my situation. I started to change my mindset, I had an opportunity to try something different. It turned out, the man was fat and very sensual for me. Definitely his charm and the attention you give me. His way of expressing sentimentality, he even knows how to take care of himself and doesn't make me feel burdened with the physical issue. So far we only focus on our reality and I enjoy every moment with him. They don't have. Ideas, how tasty it is to cuddle and feel everything. I won't give more specific details because I don't want you to sanction me hahahaha. But my desire and joy is my personal life.
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So far, nothing will make me change my mind. I accept the person as they are and everyone has their own thoughts and personality. But let me tell you that chubby guys are also sensual and divine in every way 😉
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Thank you for reading my story. The images are my authorship. The translation: deepl
I totally agree about maintaining your physical features in order to date someone like that. Since they are so obsessed with their physique, they just want people like them
Exactly, it's like the reflection. Talk about yourself from the physical appearance. and wants me to strive. to fit into your own taste. My personal perceptive. and the way I dress or gain a pound of my body. He will try to manipulate me and lower my self-esteem. It's exhausting and unhealthy for me. All the days and full years, his perfect body. is more important than accepting how I am. This lifestyle, I don't want it
Thank you for reading my story, being realistic and knowing what we really want. It makes us feel good. A hug 🤗
It’s a pleaser to read from you. I hope I get to read much more
Likewise. I look forward to continue sharing 🤗💟.
Skipping a good dessert and some snacks just to keep up with appearances can be painful, especially if the guy is a picky eater and the girlfriend ends up feeling like she's eating too much! 😅 I agree with you 100% on this one.
Hello, thank you for reading my story. If in my life, it is based on just eating a lot of snacks, it would be slowly a Daniño health. Food should be balanced and not abused. We both can enjoy the presence, as a normal and common relationship. but not always happiness is based on that. Respect and acceptance for who we are, is the best thing that could happen to me. The physical appearance, the important thing is to feel comfortable. A hug. 🤗