As we talked about in other media... life is about choice, it's about paths, and the person you have in your care is yourself, it's not about being selfish, it's about following your path, what makes you good and happy and deciding who your family is. It's hard, but that's how it is. I support you in whatever you decide. Huge hug. It has been an important year for you in every way, even for this very thing that has happened.🤗