Anastasia is my friend, she is my confidant and she says I am her therapist. She is a beautiful, kind, intelligent and professional woman, an ideal woman, metaphorically with all the qualities and perfections that any person would or should have. All the physical and inner qualities well distributed among so much destruction that she carries inside.
We met when we were in high school and although our relationship was not 24/7 we always talked and told each other things. It really was quality time. She comes from a very humble but struggling and professional family so she came out the same way.
Every weekend we would get together, because even though we were very young at the time we just liked to get together to chat and eat delicious sweets. I ADMIRE her simply for being so sociable, kind and a super friend.
She at her very young age, after finishing her high school decided to make a life with a young man of the same age, but not with the same vision of life. Although in the beginning everything was different, this time both of their lives changed. She got married, lived many beautiful experiences, really spectacular, traveled through several countries of the world, the road that she liked so much traveled on several occasions and always said she was a very very happy woman.
She tells me that, after a year of being married, of having a home both materially and personally, things started to go bad, very bad. There was very bad communication and she looked for other directions. A couple of years later they took the decision to separate, what some people suppose a liberation, for others is a trauma or for others a failure, for her it was just the beginning of a new life, with new opportunities, she simply did not look back, and decided to be happy...
The society has rivaled the divorce as a great family or personal failure and it is simply a change in our lives, she now goes out with friends, travels, meets new places and people and that also completes her as a person...
We met on Saturday, in a beautiful place, with excellent people, to talk, to enjoy wine and a lot of art. To discuss what some people think about "in marriage you have to put up with everything", a role that falls mainly on women and we only think that women are there to enjoy wonderful things, to be respected, loved, pampered and to learn from each new experience.
There are no culprits, only some consequences of which even I, being her friend, learned, reflected and opened my vision for the future.
Watching in silence this wonderful landscape, I only give thanks for having friends like her...
I say goodbye by once again congratulating the creator of this wonderful weekend initiative @galenkp, and all my hivers friends @tibilopez @lisrl26.
My photos are my own, edited in CANVA.
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Hi Dai, what a nice story, ideally the marriage should last a lifetime, but if after a few years that does not work for some reasons, it is best to separate ... and I particularly believe that women should not allow men to disrespect us, just to pretend that we have a stable partner. It is much healthier for both of you and even if you have children to separate in time and if we are still young better, not to waste our youth in something that is not worth it. Congrats on your friend!!! Gee I got chained up, hahahahaha 🤣.... Happy night!!!
Hi Tibi! Yes, it is really true. I think the same way too, marriages can last a lifetime as long as there is respect, love, support and understanding. Otherwise run, run fast and run hard.
Yes....😄🤣😅🤭
Hi Daimar, I love that place where you shared with your friend, the photos speak for themselves.😍
I am a divorced and remarried woman, and for me the divorce was as you mentioned, a liberation, but with some pain for my daughter, she suffered the consequences of her parents' mistakes. Today even she is happy with the decision I made.
What a beautiful friendship, may it last in time.😊
You see, it's a new opportunity. Children are always the ones affected by their immaturity. As the years go by they learn that everything in life happens for a reason.
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