Have you ever felt like Cinderella in the eye of the stepsisters? That feeling of not belonging to anything because of the social behavior of some people. Those who kiss and hug you and then don't seem to know you. That's really unpleasant. You talk and they look the other way, you try to start a conversation and they leave, it's something I find hard to understand, I don't say anything because they will surely throw their phrase: you don't take it personally.
This type of behavior makes me feel shocked, I feel that there is incongruence in that way of treating the friends of the environment, it is disconcerting people feel they want to lead the group, I imagine they are people who have had to struggle with a job, who have struggled all their lives to excel.
These people make me feel that they do not value my friendship, others that you send them messages asking for help and they are unable to answer, even if it is out of kindness, it is a very strong emotional impact that generates fears, rejection, doubts about the true friendship of these people, I do not believe that a person like this values your friendship.
I don't feel there is any social pressure, I think it takes away their humility and they are just empty. I feel them very immature emotionally, they are not able to handle multiple relationships properly.
Someday I will try to address the issue in the best way, I'm sure misunderstandings can be cleared up. We should definitely surround ourselves with people who value us and treat us with respect in all our relationships.
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We feel that we don't fit in, this is what makes us more selective when it comes to belonging to a group or looking for a way to connect, the real connection is to ourselves.
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Totally agree with you beautiful friend @mercmarg , knowing who we are is of great help, knowing how valuable we are helps us to be where we feel good, and if for some reason we are relegated to know that everyone is not in the same tune.
A big hug!
A big hug