Well, for this one, I'm going to have to with my uncle. He was a smart guy, very caring, but just stunted in personal growth and was too afraid of what others thought of him, worried about taking chances...just a very archetypal Norweigian bachelor. I could always relate to him though and understood what he was going through at times.
Sadly, he was a full-blown alcoholic since his early 30's and vodka was his thing. His liver ended up giving up at 64 years of age and he passed a few months after that. It was a brutal end; sad really to see the damage that stuff can do someone and how scared of death he was once he fully sobered up and realized his situation. And I miss him quite a bit; despite the addiction, he always made time for me to visit and chat with him (or maybe he was just that good at hiding it?). It's been about a year since he passed, and I think about him daily. Addiction is thing in my family, on both sides, and it's a thing that just seems to lurk out there in the shadows in my life from time to time.
Anyway, sorry for the Sunday downer! Hoping everyone out there is having a wonderful weekend ~
It's good to have people like this around, they have so much of value to pass on, even if that's what not to do.
I'll be honest and say I'm not qualified to talk much about addiction and so will not, but what I know is that in life there will be people we miss for whatever reasons and that's as it should be. Your thoughts of missing him bring emotion and feeling and so he's still touching your life, hopefully positively despite the possible sadness at his self-inflicted demise (the hard drinking).
We will never know how we are thought of when we're gone, but I would like to think that someone misses me, thinks fondly and kindly of me despite my faults and malfunctions.
This comment isn't a Sunday downer my brother, just a comment from a human who has human thoughts and feelings.
I hope your weekend has rolled out well.
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Thanks my friend...it's been just over a year since he passed. We are planning a trip next week to the graveyard to check-in. Time has flown by with everything going on in the world. It really puts everything in perspective, you know?
Perspective is good, it helps one drive forward, and to appreciate what's around in the present. Just the opinion of a knucklehead. :)
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