this is such a complicated subject and so many factors come in to play.
if it was that easy.
i dont agree on the fact that we have to share everything, it could easily become a trash can of negative emotional release.
as much as we love and care, we all have work within to do and its very personal.
our demons only talk to us and we must be careful to not spill the glass for lack of self responsability.
That's a huge point too, I agree with people having to deal with some things personally. Everyone has those moments and even when I have been through it, sharing doesn't mean I am trying to push the struggle or stress to my wife, sometimes I just need ideas or motivation.
We do these with each other so it doesn't feel like we are transferring any form of negativity...